Sex good&bad effects

 Good & bad effects sex

Hello Doctor

Hello how are you ?

I am good

Doctor i am here to clear some of my doubts

yes feel free to ask anything

What is your doubt

I am not married yet 

or not in any relationship

i have heard lot of rumours about sex

Which type of rumours

many people say that too much sex is harmful

some say having sex is healthy

Which is the exact fact ?

its good that you came here

clearing these all doubts is very important

Having sex for than 7 times in a week

then its above average

having sex for twice or thrice in a week 

then its average

but 

 having more sex during honeymoon period is ok

sex is one of the best medium to keep couple attached

is there any time which is not good for having sex ?

i have heard that 

if there is no proper information

then relationship may become unhealthy

sometimes it should be avoided

if your partner is not willing to have sex

then don't do it forcefully

you can negotiate the frequency

but 

keep in your mind

your attention is always towards sex

is not good

if you feel that

only after having sex 

you can enjoy with your partner

then its totally wrong

the sex should be balanced

as i have said i am not in a relationship

i have many friends who are girls

some times there is night stay but

i always fear that

something bad would happen

i want to ask you

if any such incident happens before marriage 

then is there any problem ?

it all depends on you

some people don't like to have physical relations before marriage

some people already have physical relations before marriage 

it depends on person to person

what is right or wrong 

if you are single

and have more sex

then it is not necessary that it is harmful for health 

pay attention to one more thing

if you are having sex with  more than one woman

then there is a possibility of STD ( Sexually Transmitted Disease )

at that time you can use protection

like condom

if you are thinking most of the time about sex

and forgotten your responsibilities

and not having focus 

this is the problem

does sexual frequency differs with age ?

yes 

sexual desire increases with age

you can see the reflection in your daily relationship

you should try to keep your sex in balance

whenever you feel that its getting unbalanced

then take some time 

is there any limit for having sex?

yes 

if you skip dinner and leave dessert for sex

leave dance or even friends

then its too much

is having more sex abnormal ?

no its wrong

its normal and healthy

its like fun in the adult age

science also suggests that

sex helps to improve mood 

along with reducing mental stress and tension

what should be the average sex time ?

as per the count

for 18- 29 years age group 

112 times in a year is considered to be average

for 30 - 40 years age group 

86 times  is considered to be average

but it depends

ok

you have explained about average sex

what is healthy sex ?

the couple who are in relationship have sex once in a week 

having sex for once or twice is considered to be healthy sex

doctor 

my friends tell me that

 they have sex for many times in week with wife

yes 

in early days of marriage

husband and wife only think of each other

at that time having more sex is ok 

but it is for only some period 

women don't tell their problems quickly

the woman's body is not always lubricated internally

at that time sex may be painful

i have read somewhere about sex obsession

if having regular sex is healthy 

then what is obsession ?

good question

it is also called hyper sexuality

compulsive sexual behaviour

sex addiction is still a subject of debate

too much of anything is always bad

same way  having more sex will bring weakness

immunity system will become weak

there will be hair loss

eye vision will become weak

lower back will start paining

 dehydration and UTI is possible 

chances are there but very less 

man/woman can suffer heartache during intercourse

thnak you doctor

all doubts are cleared today 

welcome

if you are still having any doubts 

then feel free to come 

 instead of keeping the doubt in the mind 

find the solution for it 

yes doctor

if i will come surely if i have any doubts 

thank you so much

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